Add Romance to the Other 51 Weeks of the Year

Just because Valentine’s Day is over, it doesn’t mean the romance should be! These days, holidays seem to be the only time couples make an effort to spice up their relationship. Over time, relationships may fall into a rut and lack the luster that once kept the fire burning. According to an ongoing poll on About.com, only 17 percent of couples date weekly.

It may seem strange at first, but blocking out specific time to spend together each week will give you something to look forward to. This special time will allow the two of you to reconnect after a long week and get back that intimacy you’ve been lacking.

Make plans that just the two of you will enjoy – with no kids, and no talk of work. If your schedule doesn’t permit one date a week, then try for one date a month, and take it from there. Go for a long drive in the country, have dinner at your favorite restaurant – the point is to spend time together doing something you both enjoy.

If the thought of scheduling in your mate doesn’t move you, try something spontaneous to turn up the heat. Make plans to have a couple’s massage, head to your local park for a picnic – the possibilities are endless. The point is, you’ll be spending more time together!