Thursday, June 26, 2008

We argue. Are we incompatible?

So you and your partner love each other – but the arguments just don’t seem to stop. Does this mean you’re incompatible? Not necessarily.

Tracey Cox, host of Love Bytes on iVillage.com, thinks “it’s probably more dangerous to have no arguments than lots of them.” She also thinks that “people who don’t argue tend to be either apathetic about each other, not really caring if they’re heard or understood or terrified of rocking the boat in case the other buggers off.”

Passion is what keeps relationships going. If it’s important to you that your partner completely understands you, you may find yourself faced with more arguments than not.

As theory has it, there should be five good times to every one bad time in a relationship. Arguments are okay, just be sure to balance them with lots of love!


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1 comment:

AshleyT said...

My boyfriend and I argue sometimes but I don't think that means we love each other any less. I think what matters is how you argue - not if you do or not. I think our relationship would be boring if we didn't!