Spring Fling

With the birds chirping and warm weather upon us, there’s no time like the present for a romantic spring fling. If you’re not currently spoken for, get outside and meet someone new. If you are in a relationship, make the most of the sunshine and turn your cabin fever into spring fever!

Go for a walk, throw a frisbee, have a picnic, or watch the clouds – spring is the perfect time to get outdoors and do something fun with your partner. Plus, it’s a great way to start up a summer romance. (You’ll be seeing fireworks in no time!) :-)

Eight Sex and Love Things Men Are Right About

The girls at Glamour say that if we really listen to some of men’s insights (ahh – if we must!) we could have a happier, healthier love life. Apparently, men have eight truths down cold. Check ‘em out:

• When it comes to sex, what's done is done
• Abandon a sinking (relation)ship
• More sex does lead to better sex
• You don't need to talk everything to death
• And sometimes it's fine to be completely quiet
• It's OK (and, dare we say it, a good thing) to check out other people
• Video games can bring you closer
• It's sex, not the Psychic Network

Shopping That Won’t Give Your Man a Headache

The next time you and your partner are looking for something to get you in the mood, try lingerie shopping together. You’ll have fun picking out sweet and sexy pieces that he’s sure to enjoy you in – and out of – later.

If you’re really adventurous, try getting your man into the dressing room for a sneak peak!

Are You a Good Kisser?

Shortly after my first kiss I remember wondering, was I any good at that? After years of practice I think it may be fair to say that truly good kissing is an art form!

You may find yourself out on a date with someone and the two of you have a great deal in common. The conversation is flowing, you have many of the same interests, etc. But it all comes down to those last 30 seconds - it's make or break time.

The kiss of death is a seal all its own. If I don’t call you back, it may not be because I didn’t enjoy hearing about the time you spent working with orphans in a third world country. It may actually be that you are just a bad kisser. According to Nicole Kristal, writer for Newsweek, Premiere, and Back Stage West newspaper, here’s a cheat sheet of oral offenses, so you can avoid being thought of as a cringe-worthy kisser:

• The Vampire Lip-Sucker
• The Speed Racer
• I have a tongue, too, thank you
• Mr. Hoover
• The Cheek-Licker
• Ladies, you can stink, too

If any of these no-no's sound like you, slow down, and think about your next move. After all, practice makes perfect!

Keep the Love Alive

Apparently we’re not the only ones trying to keep the love alive! The people at Cosmopolitan want to teach you how to stay hot for each other, too. It’s said that at a certain point in relationships you reach a lull – things get boring and you lack the luster that was once there. I believe that if you and your partner make the effort to try new things, the fire you share will never fizzle. "Uncertainty is the very thing that fuels the initial interest and strong desire," says licensed marriage and family therapist Esther Perel, author of Mating in Captivity. "The paradox is that long-term couples tend to give in to being predictable, which causes the relationship to become stale." In addition to the many tips shared on AreYouRomantic.com, check out what Cosmo has to say that might help you and yours turn up the heat!

Signs He’s a Keeper

I came across a recent article on MSN that I thought was interesting, but to me seemed like common sense. According to Karen Sherman, Ph.D., a psychologist specializing in relationships in New York, “Everything you want to know about someone is there for you right at the beginning. You’re more apt to pick it up in a first meeting than a second or third when emotions get involved, and clear thinking diminishes.”

If a guy didn’t posses these qualities, I can’t say I’d be that interested anyway. MSN polled experts and frequent daters to help you detect early tip-offs he’s got serious boyfriend potential. Here, what to look for:

• He’s kind to the wait staff/taxi driver/doorman


• He could pass for Jon Stewart


• His cell is off


• He mentions his mom (in passing)


• He doesn’t mention that his watch is a Rolex


• He gazes at your face
  
  

Role Playing at It's Finest

There’s something about role playing that takes your relationship to new levels. Being in character allows you and your partner to take on a new persona and opens you up to things you may not have previously considered. Role playing will allow you to express your inner most desires and is sure to spice things up in the bedroom.

When it comes to role playing there are many fantasies worth considering. Lovingyou.com provides some interesting insight on the following scenarios:

• Teacher/Student
• Slave/Master
• Service Worker/House Wife
• Bar Pick Up Scenario
• Artist/Model
• Escort/Client
• Stripper/Client
• Doctor/Patient

Of course, you can try any fantasy you like – that’s the point! As long as you are both comfortable with what you’re doing and enjoying yourselves, there’s no reason not to get a little creative!